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Tinder and hooking up... deliberations

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Yuzurin replied the topic: Tinder and hooking up... deliberations

any reflections 5 months after ;)?

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Arrocee replied the topic: Tinder and hooking up... deliberations

No ragrets. I got to explore something I was curious about and it actually felt pretty self-actualizing to go after something you want. It really depends on the person and what's good for them. I don't really partake as much in the whole hookup culture any more because after a while it gets old, but at the time it was interesting and gave something for me to be confident about (knowing myself in sexual situations, etc.).

On the other hand hooking up was what got me in over my head with a lot of romantic travails, so beware.

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Arrocee replied the topic: Tinder and hooking up... deliberations

Also... I got curious recently and calculated what percentile I was in for # of sexual partners and it was way beyond what I expected. I was in the 94th or 96th percentile for my age and gender according to one survey. So then I realized that I thought hooking up in the fashion that I went about hooking up was way more common than it actually was. ><"

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blade replied the topic: Tinder and hooking up... deliberations

dont really have a hooking up culture where I am, or maybe I am too old .

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