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9 months 3 weeks ago #9319 by Yuzurin
Yuzurin replied the topic: Tinder and hooking up... deliberations
any reflections 5 months after ;)?
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2 months 1 week ago #9463 by Arrocee
Arrocee replied the topic: Tinder and hooking up... deliberations
No ragrets. I got to explore something I was curious about and it actually felt pretty self-actualizing to go after something you want. It really depends on the person and what's good for them. I don't really partake as much in the whole hookup culture any more because after a while it gets old, but at the time it was interesting and gave something for me to be confident about (knowing myself in sexual situations, etc.).

On the other hand hooking up was what got me in over my head with a lot of romantic travails, so beware.

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2 months 1 week ago #9464 by Arrocee
Arrocee replied the topic: Tinder and hooking up... deliberations
Also... I got curious recently and calculated what percentile I was in for # of sexual partners and it was way beyond what I expected. I was in the 94th or 96th percentile for my age and gender according to one survey. So then I realized that I thought hooking up in the fashion that I went about hooking up was way more common than it actually was. ><"

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2 months 1 week ago #9465 by blade
blade replied the topic: Tinder and hooking up... deliberations
dont really have a hooking up culture where I am, or maybe I am too old .

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1 month 6 days ago #9489 by mbr
mbr replied the topic: Tinder and hooking up... deliberations
The early responses almost sounded like medical advice. I am sorry that I wasnt around much to answer any queries. But plenty of resources online nowadays to look up anyway.

Coming from my neck of the woods, it is ok to be friends and to date, but sex outside marriage is still very much discouraged, especially with people you hardly know. There are risks, of course, but some people nowadays seem to think that having sex is just like a hand-shake: Not a big deal.

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